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Family quarrels – algorithm of resolution of problems.

Family quarrels, unfortunately, became an integral part of a life of many pairs. Problems in a family always suffices, as at the beginning, and throughout a joint life. And after all quarrels and conflicts spoil nerves, because of them remains to less time for love and attention to each other. In given article the most universal will be considered, in our opinion, algorithm of the decision of almost any arising conflict. We will consider it on points.

1. Someone one should sound a current situation, having taken of a neutral position

2. If the problem not urgent, it does not demand the instant permission, it is not necessary to discuss it at once when you emotions, instead of reason seize. Transfer a question on its permission to quieter time, is better the day off. At you enough time will think alone with itself over a current situation. Before the appointed date it is impossible to discuss this problem, even indirectly.

3. Hour of the decision of the put problem has come. Make so, what not who did not distract you the stranger, exclude stirring moments: the TV, the tape recorder, etc. By turns, without raising the voice and without interrupting the interlocutor, tell the point of view.

4. After listening of both opinions, easy, without hurrying up start to discuss this point in question, trying to find decision more optimum and arranging both parties.

5. If someone from debaters starts to become more aggressive, starts to raise the voice, and the compromise still is not found, means, it is necessary to postpone again this point in question for some days and to take advantage of point 2.

Discussion date should be changed only in consent! Certainly, preliminary, it is necessary to discuss and these rules to agree with them and to pledge a word to accurately them to follow – only then they will work.

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