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How to get on with the mother-in-law of 10 key rules.

1. Do not expect that she will grow fond of you. You though also relatives, but necessarily. The love here can and not arise, and here it is necessary to aspire to valid relations.

2. Do not try to achieve from the mother-in-law of good feelings, showing the advantages and talents. That you well sing or is tasty prepare, will not force it to love you.

3. Do not tell the superfluous. Certainly, if you wish to ask its council, ask, but it is not necessary to tell too much. If you share with it any problems, quite probably, it will draw conclusions not in your advantage. For example, if at you trouble on work, she can quite decide that it you the unaccomodating person moreover and to tell about this all and to everyone.

4. Do not count on its help but if that is, be grateful. The help often allows someone to count on the control over that to whom help. It is convenient, when the mother-in-law can be asked about something. Only it is necessary to think, than it can turn back. If she buys to you habitation for the money, it is not necessary to be surprised that she will feel the mistress in your apartment.

5. Do not gossip. Even if you discuss the mother-in-law with people who at all do not know it, it can reach ears of the mother-in-law or your husband. What for to you superfluous problems?

6. Do not row. Even if you do not accept in behaviour of the mother-in-law everything, it is not necessary to arrange abuse with a ware beating. Learn to concern an event easy.

7. Define with priorities. It should be really important things. For example, your relations with the husband or education of children. Here the mother-in-law should not teach and interfere, as though it would not like.

8. Concede in the small. It is not necessary to quarrel because of such trifle, as, for example, colour of a cloth. The most important thing (the previous point see) you all the same solve.

9. Do not forget about tomorrow. Remember that tomorrow the mother-in-law will not disappear anywhere that is why it is not necessary to sever relations with a root or to operate by a principle «tomorrow though a flood». Even if now at you it is impossible to adjust relations, it is necessary to wait and try still.

10. Understand it. Put itself on its place. Probably, you sometime will become the mother-in-law. Understand its feelings, and concern it how you want, that sometime concerned you.

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